There is a television show on the A&E channel called
"Hoarders.” At the beginning of the show, there is the
message explaining it, "Compulsive hoarding is a mental
disorder marked by an obsessive need to acquire and keep
things even if the items are worthless, hazardous or
unsanitary. More than three million Americans suffer
from this problem.” On the program, they show the most
severe of these cases. People write and ask for help;
and the program provides a psychologist to help oversee
the mental health of the person, also an organizer who
specializes in cleaning up hoarding households, a whole
crew of people to remove the trash from the home, and a
cleaning crew. They also provide funds for counseling
after the filming is over.
In these most severe cases, the homes are completely
filled with stuff: clothes, boxes, books, magazines,
items of every kind, piled up high in every room, and I
mean every room. You can only get from one room to
another by walking through pathways between the
mountains of trash, and usually, even in those pathways,
you are walking on top of stuff. Often, it is some
crisis that gets the person to call the show and ask for
help. For example, the city might declare the house
condemned, or a spouse may threaten to leave, or the
children are taken by CSD. But even during such
threatening trouble, they still find it extremely hard
to part with any of their collected stuff. You and I
would look at it and say, "That's just trash – it's
broken, torn, defaced, ruined – throw it out!” But for
these people, they are valuable, useful items. There was
one woman they spent a whole day with trying to get her
to agree to part with just a tiny portion of her hoard,
and they filled half a dumpster. When the crew came back
the next day, they found she had gone back into the
dumpster at night and pulled almost everything out and
put it back in her house.
Why do they do it? Why do people fill their homes with
mountains of stuff to the point where it threatens their
physical health, their ability to stay in their home,
their relationships with their spouses, children and
other relatives and friends? Why do they do it? The
mental health experts and sometimes the hoarders,
themselves, explain that the stuff they buy or collect
and hang on to is a way to deal with the stresses, the
fears and the losses of life. The junk they hang onto is
their protection against sadness, hopelessness and
emotional danger, and yet WE see them as sad, hopeless
and in danger. They believe their junk is somehow
working for them, protecting them, satisfying certain
needs and desires. They believe that. But we, looking
from the outside can see how wrong they are. All their
stuff has not brought them any good at all, and in fact,
it is ruining their lives. We see that, even as they
cling passionately to every item that someone else wants
to throw away. They don't see it.
In chapter 3 of Colossians, St. Paul talks about the
change that takes place in baptism where we die with
Jesus Christ, we're raised with Jesus Christ and Christ
becomes our life. But, I think, in a sense, we become
hoarders during our lives. We, so to speak, put on
Christ at our baptisms, but we become afraid it's not
enough. So we go dumpster diving to look for other
garments to also wear. Clothing that may be dirty, torn,
badly fitting, button-less, shabby and mildewed. But in
our minds, we see garments that are useful, helpful,
comforting, attractive; items that protect us from the
cares, dangers and troubles of life. These are the
habits of sins that we hoard, and we can find it very
difficult to throw them out. Even though we can see that
they look horrible on other people, in our minds, they
look good on us. And we need them. We can't part with
them. We think they help us when we are afraid, lonely,
sad, anxious, bored, angry, jealous. And just like a
hoarder who cannot throw out a two-legged chair because
he claims it can be fixed even though he doesn't have
the other legs, we can also hang on to our sinful habits
in the belief that they are actually worth keeping.
Perhaps there are some that we, just like the hoarder,
cannot even see because they are habits we have kept for
so long that we can't even imagine throwing them away,
or we don't even see the harm that they do to us. Like
that threadbare sweater we think still has some use in
it, or that pair of pants where we say nobody notices
that little hole – we can become so very comfortable
with sinful habits that we can fail to see the good that
could replace them if we would only first remove these
sad and sorry garments from our lives.
So St. Paul tells us today in the Epistle to strip off
the old self and put on the new – which is the life of
grace, which is Christ Himself. All you who have been
baptized into Christ have put on Christ – don't exchange
Him for shabby garments. The best of all, the lasting,
the eternal, the life without regret is not something
that can be hoarded by mortal man, because it is freely
and abundantly and continually offered to us by Christ
our Lord.
Thanks be to God!