Today's epistle begins in Colossians where it ended in
last Sunday's reading, where you remember St. Paul
telling the Colossians to strip off the man who is
anger, fury, malice, obscene language, lying,
immorality, evil desire, and instead to put on the new
man. And, today, we are told about some of the qualities
we are choosing if we put on that new person: "Put on
then, as God's chosen ones, holy and beloved, a heart of
mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience.”
Those are the examples of the two sides of the coin of
Christian life: on the one side, it is to strip off
sins, and on the other side, it is to clothe ourselves
in virtues. But, it seems to me that we probably pay
more attention to the "stripping off” part than the
"putting on” part. Very young children find it a lot
easier to take their clothes off than to put them on,
and sometimes they don't even want to put them on. In a
similar way, I think we can find it easier to try and
correct our bad actions than to grow in virtuous
actions, just as it is easier to teach your child not to
hit his sister than it is to teach him patience.
As I'm thinking about it, I realize it's also a whole
lot easier to identify and recognize sin than it is to
find virtue in our daily lives. For example, a person
might remember that he lied to his boss yesterday, but
very few people will stop and think, "I was honest and
truthful all day long yesterday.” We might remember
saying something hurtful to another person a lot more
quickly than we remember saying something kind to
someone. I think that is rather interesting. It is a
kind of recognition that we are called to live in
holiness and virtue, which we generally don't even
notice when we are practicing it because we see it as
simply a genuine part of life that is expected of us.
Virtue never harms us, unlike sin; it only adds to the
richness of our lives and also to the lives of other
people, whether they see it or not.
Any good parent does not want their children to hit one
another, but any good parent wants a lot more than that
for their children. They also want them to grow up in
real virtues, like the ones we heard in today's epistle:
mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Good
parents want their children to be as full of virtue as
possible so that their lives will be rich in good
things. Our heavenly Father desires the same thing for
us, whether we are children or adults.
So yes, we should work at stripping away our sinful
tendencies but at the same time also pay attention to
putting on virtue, because of all the things we might
ever wear, nothing is as attractive on us as virtue.
Pick a virtue or two to focus on and practice. We pay
attention every day to putting on clothes which is why
we have never ended up at work or school naked. Can't we
also spend a few moments putting on the desire for some
particular virtue? And if we notice our appearance a few
times a day in a mirror, can't we also develop a habit
of checking how we look a few times a day in our virtue?
If we pray God to give us this day our daily bread, we
can also ask His help to eat that bread in the virtue we
have chosen to grow into. If we could trade off some of
our concerns for things we are afraid of and instead put
that thought and energy into gaining habits of holiness,
we can score double victories in our daily walk with
Christ.
For Jesus Christ will smooth our path with further
grace, but only we can begin and seek out growth in
virtue. It's our work, and it's work that brings us
lasting wages that cannot be taken from us.