The alleged entertainer Lady Gaga has been in the news
recently as she is on tour in Asia. Several countries
there such as the Philippines and Indonesia have placed
restrictions on what she may say or do on the stage and
have censored parts of her road show. I am not
surprised. I'm certainly not a fan of this woman, and
I've only watched a few of her music videos. I know of
her work mostly through readings. She likes to shock
people and two of the ways she uses to shock are by
insulting religious beliefs, especially of Christians,
but also of Jews, and she loves to display, in word and
action, the crudest sexual vulgarities.
She mocks the idea that chastity has any value in life,
and so naturally the idea of modesty is also worthless.
I remembered these are two of what are traditionally
called the 12 Fruits of the Holy Spirit, and since last
year at Pentecost I brought up the seven Gifts of the
Holy Spirit, why not talk about this list of virtues? So
if Lady Gaga's performances are contrary to chastity and
modesty, how do they fair in terms of the other ten
Fruits of the Spirit? Self-control, faithfulness,
gentleness, generosity, goodness, kindness, patience,
peace, joy and charity — none of these I suspect
come to people's minds when they think of Lady Gaga, her
persona, her music, her message. And yet, aren't they
all attractive to people, and admired by people in
general? Even if some people may not think it's
important to practice one or two of them for themselves,
they still see the value in
other people practicing them.
Charity, or love, is simply willing the
good for another person and being willing to act to make
that good happen, if possible. It is willing the good
for others and being ready to help that good come about.
That is one way to best describe the Christian virtue of
charity. Do you think that is the definition most people
would come up with if you asked them what love is? I've
never heard a Country-Western ballad called, "She Done
Willed Me No Good," but it is a definition for love that
covers any and every type of human relationship and
imagine how wonderful our own lives would be if everyone
else in the world only desired what was for our good and
was willing to work to make it happen. And then there is
joy, which is not the emotional, excited kind of
happiness that we sometimes feel when something very
good comes our way (although it can be.) Joy is
more the general sense of contentment and satisfaction
that we have in life because of our relationship with
God, and it is a gift we can hold onto even when we are
sad or in trouble. Peace is a sense of steadiness
and calmness that marks our position in life because,
again, we realize we are under the protection and care
of the Lord, so that even when times are tough and
everything seems to be in turmoil, we can still keep a
sense of balance and calm because God is with us, and He
will not fail us.
Patience is the willingness to bear the
weaknesses, flaws and failings of other people, and not
only theirs, but our own weakness and failing as well.
It's the one virtue I think people wish others would
have more, even when they don't have much themselves.
Kindness is an act of mercy or helpfulness and
consideration of the goodness of our fellow human beings
even if they live at home with us. Sadly today kindness
is often taken as showing a sign of dangerous weakness
in the sight of others and that is why so many
courtesies that used to be found in our culture have
fallen away. And I think it's fascinating that holding
back from doing good is thought to be a strength, while
extending yourself in kindness is actually the mark of a
strong person.
Goodness is godliness. As much as we want our
children to be good, to choose what is good, to become
good men and women, so much should we also choose to be
good and act in goodness so that they can see and learn
from us what we so earnestly desire to give to them.
Generosity is the mark of a person who knows they
are blessed by God and never afraid that if they give
something away they will be poorer for doing so. They
know God will provide for them, and that's why sometimes
the most generous people are the poorest people, because
even in their poverty they can still be rich in God. The
man steeped in sin is convinced that power is found in
actions that give him power over other people, in
exerting pressure, force, violence and terror to gain
control of others. Sometimes we call this parenting.
(Just kidding.) But for Christians true power is not in
violence or domination. Gentleness or
meekness does no violence to the mind, body or
soul of another person but is the mark of genuine regard
and care for their God-given life, and a sign of deep
respect.
Those are most of the Fruits of the Holy Spirit in
brief, and they are the result of God's own divine life
within us. But they are not fruits in the sense that we
are just sitting and waiting for them to ripen. They
need to be cultivated, fertilized, used and practiced if
one wants to grown in them. So that is first: choosing
to want to grow in them. Second: how? Twelve are a lot
to tackle at once. But if we chose just one or two for
now, we could make an easier time of it. Tomorrow begins
the Apostles' Fast which runs until the Feast of SS.
Peter and Paul on the 29th. I know most of us are
probably not going to follow that very much, so if not
the fast, then why not the fruit? You saw in the back of
church all the little pull off tags, with the 12 Fruits
of the Spirit listed on them. It's a gimmick but it
might actually be very helpful. I suggest you pull off
one or two tags that you might be willing to work on
during this month of June. Keep that tag as a reminder
for yourself. Every day consider that virtue, pray for
an increase in that virtue, review how well you lived
that virtue the day before, and ask the Lord's pardon
for any failings. Believe it or not, even kids can do
this. Take care of your fruit! On our property here I
see that the pears and the apples out front are formed
and growing day by day. So also may God's fruit within
us grow until the time of the harvest of the saints for
life eternal.