Last Sunday Bob and Jane Salter were driving back to
Corvallis on Hwy 99. Ahead of them, down the road,
coming toward them, they noticed an SUV starting to
swerve into the road. It crossed the yellow line and hit
a motorcycle that was not far ahead. The man on the
motorcycle was thrown into the air by the force of the
impact. While Jane dialed 911, Bob ran over to the man
to see if he could offer first aid, but sadly it
appeared that he was already dead, and when the
paramedics arrived there was nothing that could bring
him back to life. So I was thinking about what an awful
scene that must have been to watch, the last thing you
would expect to see on the highway on a beautiful Sunday
afternoon. I prayed for Jane and Bob and also for the
soul of the poor man who lost his life suddenly and
unexpectedly a week ago today.
Then, just 24 hours later, Heather Olson was driving to
Junction City with Felicity in the car, and suddenly
another car pulls out of a driveway right in front of
them. There's no way to avoid an accident and I'm sure
it was a horrible moment when Heather realized that no
matter how hard she applied her foot to the brake there
was no chance she would not hit the other car. And then
bam! A T-bone collision. Thank God that despite a neck
injury for Heather there were no greater injuries for
her or Felicity. The girls in the other car, even though
not wearing seat belts were not hurt. The Olson car was
totaled.
Two accidents involving parishioners in such a short
period of time makes me think once again how fragile our
lives are, and how true it is that we can never be sure
when the moment of our own death will happen as it says
in our funeral service, "in a moment death comes for us
all." That's always a very sobering thought and it can
be a great tool for us to use for ourselves, because if
we remember our own mortality we will, or we ought to,
focus ourselves on how we want to live in the time we
have left to us. There has been a long, long tradition
in the Church of a spiritual lifestyle that keeps the
thought of our mortality always close to mind. Many
years ago, I went into the crypt chapel of a certain
Franciscan church in Rome, and throughout the place,
section after section, the walls and ceilings are
covered with elaborate artwork and designs, all made out
of the bones of dead Franciscans. It is an artwork, and
very well constructed, that is meant to serve as a
reminder, for those who see it, about the fleeting time
of life in this world. Such a display would have been
appreciated by people living 100 or 200 or 300 years
ago, as an opportunity to reflect on the nature of our
short lives and on the mercy of God that we hope we may
see at the hour of our own death. These bones were
displayed in reverence for the benefit of
living Christians. But, of course, in modern
times when so many have little or no active faith, these
bones often provoke no thoughts of conscience, or
contrition, or of any kind of good resolution in faith,
or any hint of a belief in Christ who offers the gift of
everlasting life to those who faithfully follow. I could
see that some people were reflective and thoughtful
while passing through each section of the bone-covered
walls of that chapel. But for others it was simply a
chamber of horrors, a kind of spiritual funhouse, a
Halloween display from the Middle Ages meant not to
provoke thought, not to inspire faith, but instead to
entertain us. What could be better for us or serve a
more important function than to entertain us? I could
not tell you what my fellow visitors to that chapel were
saying if they didn't speak English, but I could observe
how they seemed to react. But of all the nationalities
present in the Chapel of the Bones, when I was there
which people were the worst? Of course, the Americans.
They had no clue why this display existed except to
serve as a kind of fun house for the amusement of people
like them. How American! Nothing beats entertainment.
Our culture has created an ever wider distance from the
thought, from the experience of being in touch with
death. We see it in funeral services, which are rarely
done these days, having been replaced by "Celebrations
of Life" and I do think the reasons people are
celebrating is that they are the ones who are still
alive. Let no corpse present defile this joyous
gathering. Instead, only photos, videos and funny
stories are permitted to suggest, almost that the dead
aren't really
that dead. They're just kind of "away." Much
better that! Otherwise we might have to think about our
own mortality.
You may have noticed that on so many TV shows that deal
with police, crime, serious drama and such, over the
years there has been an increasingly amazing number of
corpses shown on the screen—not only corpses, but
gruesome images of dead people and terribly graphic
autopsy scenes. Great for entertainment, but in real
life most people no longer want that close of a
connection to the dead. It's not only disturbing but
it's not even entertaining.
If we contemplate our own death, it can truly help us to
contemplate our present life: how we think, how we act,
what we value, how much we are invested in our faith in
Jesus Christ. When I think of the Gospel today, the
tragedy of a young man's death, the tragedy of his
widowed mother who has lost her only child, and all the
emotion and sense of loss that must have accompanied
that funeral procession—when I think of all that,
the most important thing is not that the son dies, not
even that he was brought back from the dead, the most
important thing is that Jesus was there with them.
And for Saints Sergius and Bacchus, whom we remember
today, the most important thing for them as they knew
their tortures and executions were ahead of them was not
the fact that they faced death, but that Christ was with
them. And for us, who find it very difficult to keep
remembering that we do not know when our day will come,
even so may we live until that day with a keen awareness
of and a continuing conversation in prayer with Our
Lord, Who is loving us all as the Crucified Savior,
because if we live truly in Him, we shall enter into
life to rejoice with Him and in Him. And if we live in
Him, that joy is not just far off—we can have a
taste of it even today.