What are the elements that make up a Christian life?
What does it take to really be a Christian? First of
all, belief in Jesus Christ, true man and true God, Who
died for our sins and rose from the dead for our eternal
life. Then next you might say there is a certain conduct
that goes along with our faith. We seek to avoid sin and
to grow in virtue by our own efforts and by relying on
God's grace to help us to do so. We would also have to
say that prayer in private and worship together in
public are also necessary for Christians, and that's why
we are all here today, thanks be to God.
And yet there is something else that I think is also
very important and that is parish life. We are called to
faith as individuals but we are called to then join the
Body of Christ in a true and genuine way by
participating in a local church, the local expression of
the Body of Christ. I have been thinking about this a
lot the past few weeks and I want to share a few
thoughts with you.
In the early Church, Christians met in homes for the
Liturgy and also for a common meal, sharing in the Body
and Blood of Christ, and then also sharing in a common
meal. So the local parishes, so to speak, were very
small because the faithful had to fit into some
wealthier Christian's house. So each parish probably had
40-60 people at best. For the longest time, this was how
things generally worked because building churches when
there was always the threat of persecution was not a
wise idea. Now, when we read the words of St. Paul as to
how Christians are to behave, I think we tend to gloss
over those sections where he instructs believers how to
act and live with their fellow parishioners and we apply
his words as though he is speaking about how we should
treat everyone in general, and remember he is speaking
to groups perhaps smaller than this parish. How does he
talk about conduct in the parish?
In Romans, Chapter 12, he talks of the need for everyone
to build up and contribute to the Body of Christ
according to the talents and gifts each person has, and
he exhorts, "Love one another with mutual affection . .
. Contribute to the needs of the holy ones, exercise
hospitality. In Chapter 14, he speaks of not eating food
at church that will offend a fellow parishioner, instead
we should, "pursue what leads to peace and to building
up one another."
In 1st Corinthians, St. Paul again speaks of parish
life: Chapter 6—Don't be bringing lawsuits against
other church members. Chapter 8 and 10 — Again
don't bring meat to communal dinner if it will offend
someone else, and share your food and drink with those
parishioners who may have brought little because they
are poor. Again in Chapter 12, he speaks of the sharing
of gifts and talents with each other in the Body of
Christ. In the letter to the Galatians, Chapter 6, the
apostle writes, "Let us not grow tired of doing good,
for in due time we shall reap our harvest. So then,
while we have the opportunity, let us do good to all,
but especially to those who belong to the family of the
faith." He encourages us to bear one another's burdens.
In the epistle to the Ephesians, Paul again urges us to
grow in giving to Christ by sharing our gifts in His
Body, the Church, living the truth in love. We are not
to lie to each other, "for we are members of one
another." We should be "kind to one another, forgiving
one another as God has forgiven us in Christ." In
Philippians Chapter 2, he writes that we should be "of
the same mind, with the same love, united in heart
thinking one thing. . . each one looking out not for his
own interest but also for the interest of the others"
and "humbly regard others as more important than
yourselves." Paul instructs the Colossians to "bear with
one another, forgiving one another. . . And let the
peace of Christ control your hearts, the peace into
which you were called in one body. And be thankful. Let
the word of Christ dwell in you richly as you teach and
admonish one another. . ."
When Paul writes to the parish in Thessaloniki, he says,
"On the subject of mutual charity, you have no need for
anyone to write you, for you yourselves have been taught
by God to love one another. . . Be at peace among
yourselves. We urge you brothers, admonish the idle,
cheer the fainthearted, support the weak, be patient
with all. See that no one returns evil for evil; rather
always seek what is good for each other and for all."
All these quotes I have read are not about conduct and
attitudes and realities for believers towards those
outside the Church, but rather those inside the Church,
and even more specifically not in the Church at large
but rather in their own parish, and I think many times
when Catholics hear these sections read they tend to
think globally not locally to the people they are
standing in church with. Pope John Paul came up with a
theology of the body." I wish we had someone to come up
with a "theology of the parish."
I speak of these things today not because I think we are
doing a bad job as a parish, but because I know that I,
and we, could always do better. In the first place let
us continue to pray for one another, to commend
ourselves and one another to Christ our God, putting
each others' needs before the Lord. Let us worship at
the Liturgy together as well as we are able, in song, in
prayer, in faith. Even more so, let us encourage and
support and help one another where we are able, as we
are able because it is this charity which then flows out
into the world at large, as we enlarge our own hearts
with loving service to each other here, first.
I have often been touched by the way that many of you
have cared for your fellow parishioners with great
kindness and care and even sacrifice in order to help
them in time of need and to encourage them in time of
trouble and celebrate the happy events with them as
well. But yet I think we could still do better and more,
and may the Lord guide and support us in our care for
one another.
And then there are the practical elements necessary for
a good parish life: those who cantor, serve, read,
clean, do the yard work, make repairs, give people rides
to church, sew, do the coffee social, take care of the
website and Facebook page, donate money to pay the bills
for this place, those who mow, and help with the dance
group, and print up booklets and fliers and run the
Bible study and feed the priest, and take care of many
other jobs that have to be done so our parish life can
continue in peace and thanks be to you who take up all
these jobs for us for our welfare in Christ and for the
support of our faith. Thank you for your service in
charity. Not just service like PTA, Boy Scouts —
service deeply connected with faith.
Of course we are also not the people who come to church
as individuals who just happen to be sharing the same
space so that we can be spiritually serviced and then go
about our own business, maybe even challenging other
people to get out of the parking lot first. It's much
easier in a big parish to have that kind of mindset. It
is true that charity begins at home but it's not
supposed to stay there. It should also begin here, in
our spiritual home so that as we pray for, respect and
serve and care for one another, our charity returns home
with us stronger than when we came, and we can better
share it there and with the world.
Thanks be to God.