Do you think you are generous people? Are you a generous
person? Am I a generous person? How would you judge how
generous you are? The dictionary defines generous as,
"freely giving or sharing money and other valuable
things; providing more than the amount that is needed or
normal; showing kindness and concern for others." So
perhaps that can help you decide whether you think
you're a generous person. Another method to evaluate
yourself might be to compare yourself with the actions
of other people in this regard. When I do that I can see
that I'm not a very generous person because the
charitable spirit and actions of so many other people
reveal my stingy and selfish nature. Thanks for that!
In today's epistle, St. Paul praises those who are
generous. He's taking up a collection for the needy and
famine-struck believers in Jerusalem and the surrounding
countryside, and he is encouraging the Corinthians to
open their purses widely for this charitable work. He
says, "Whoever sows sparingly will also reap sparingly,
and whoever sows bountifully will also reap bountifully
. . . Moreover God is able to make every grace abundant
for you so that, in all things, always having all you
need, you may have an abundance for every good work." He
makes it clear that the Lord, Himself, is generous to
all of us. Indeed, everything that we have, contrary to
what we may sometimes be tempted to think, everything we
have is ultimately the gift of God.
I was thinking about generosity this past week at the
priests' retreat while I was in Dallas dodging Ebola day
after day. And I realized perhaps a bit more clearly
that my generosity is very tied in to my trust in God.
As much as I trust in God, that much can I afford to be
generous, because I know that He is the One who
ultimately provides for me. So if you could attach a
meter to me, and measure my willingness to give, it
would swing towards "extraordinarily generous," or
"mighty stingy and selfish" depending on how much trust
I have in the Lord.
I used to think the measure of generosity was about
percentages—so, for example, if you have $100 and
you are willing to give $10 to someone else, that is
generous; but if you give $20 that is even more
generous. Or if you have three spare hours to spend as
you like and you use a half-hour to help someone out
that is kind; but if you give them two hours that is
very, very kind. Obviously this way of measuring a
person's giving makes sense, but it doesn't provide a
complete picture in the Christian sense. For those with
faith, generous giving is not just about how much one is
willing to offer based on how much one has. Nor is it
about responding to the needs of others because our
emotions are touched and we are moved by the needs of
other people. People are more willing to write a check
for victims of an earthquake who need food and water
than they are to write a check to help bring fresh water
into a poor village, which could also be used to grow
food. The pictures of the suffering people in the
earthquake situation will prompt a much better response
than the photos of those who must travel a great
distance to get their daily water. I guess that is
understandable, but is it right?
So much charitable giving is based upon what we think
other people need, and upon what we think we can afford
to give. That is not unreasonable. But I don't think
it's the best basis on which to decide how much of our
money, goods and time should be spent, nor where they
should go. As St. Paul suggests in this section of his
epistle, to be generous means to have a correct and
reasonable and full understanding of what the Lord has
given to us, rather than thinking that we have gained it
all by ourselves. Then, having that clear inventory in
our heads, and knowing its source, how freely am I
willing to give out for those who are in need of it more
than I am? For example, I still have pretty good health,
thanks be to God (and that is the point) and I am not
spending time on doctor and hospital visits, nor taking
care of personal health problems. How generous am I with
this time that I have? The giving of it to others is a
way to give thanks to God for what He has given to me.
It's an acknowledgment of that which is treasured not by
hanging on to all of it but by giving as it has been
given. And when others receive what I have given, they
too, St. Paul insists, may be tempted to give thanks to
God, "What? Not to me?" "No, thanks be given to God."
And this, in turn, may prompt them to be generous as
well.
Thanksgiving leads to generosity, which leads back to
thanksgiving. All of this is a way to better understand
that this material world is not closed in on itself, but
rather it is a gift and a blessing from the Lord to us,
for us, to draw us closer to His divine life, which is
not limited to time and space but flows out into an
eternal communion for those who partake of it.
So before we can imagine ourselves becoming more
generous, we need to have a solid and complete
perspective on what we actually have right now. True
enough, our minds and our hearts are very often fixated
on what we don't have and we want, what we do have and
we don't want, and what others have that we wish we had
too. So it takes a bit of effort sometimes to gain a
clear view on the wealth that has been given to us. And
when we have a proper assessment of that wealth, then we
can offer proper thanks. And when we have offered proper
thanks we will be more willing to give—whenever,
wherever, however, to those who are in need. May those
who receive be inclined to thank God and do the same in
return. It is a regular struggle to see our goods and
our graces as they truly stack up in the true wealth we
have, and that's why we may find it difficult to share
more of ourselves and our stuff. But this is a good time
and a good place to make that effort, and certainly in
this Eucharist then, the perfect opportunity to
sincerely thank the Lord Who gives Himself for us.