I read a fine article in First Things recently written
by Wesley Smith. He writes about two people and the
praise they receive from the press and the media as they
prepare for their deaths. The first person is Michael
Landon, the popular star of the TV shows, "Bonanza,"
"Little House on the Prairie," and "Highway to Heaven."
Michael publically announced on the "Tonight Show" with
Johnny Carson, in May of 1992, that he had pancreatic
cancer and probably not long to live. He granted several
interviews after that, telling Life magazine, "If I'm
gonna die, death's gonna have to do a lot of fighting to
get me."
When he died a few months later, many obituaries praised
his courage. The obituary in PEOPLE Magazine entitled
"Goodbye Little Joe," spoke of Langdon's devotion to his
children and how, as a friend said, he passed his
strength along to them. As the end approached Langdon
was described as extraordinarily calm. Another friend
said of his last hours, "It was like going off a diving
board. He knew it was coming and he was brave to the
last."
Then there is another person facing death, Brittany
Maynard. Brittany is a young married woman, aged 29, who
has terminal brain cancer, and not many months to live.
She has moved from California to Portland so that she
can legally take her own life. She has given herself
over to a PR campaign advocating for legalized suicide,
run by "Compassion and Choices" (formerly known as the
Hemlock Society.) This group applauds Maynard's courage
in telling her story and praises her attempts to alert
the American people about "death with dignity," calling
her "selfless and heroic."
Now the author of this article writes how strange it is
that the reporting about this young woman's decision to
die is very similar to the reporting about Landon's
courage 23 years ago. PEOPLE Magazine, which formerly
praised Langdon for fighting to the end, now praises
Maynard for doing the exact opposite. Here's what they
wrote: "For the past 29 years, Brittany Maynard has
lived a fearless life—running half-marathons,
traveling through Southeast Asia for a year and even
climbing Mount Kilimanjaro. So it's no surprise she is
facing her death the same way. On Monday, Maynard will
launch an online video campaign with the non-profit
Compassion and Choices," an end of life choice advocacy
organization, to fight for expanding Death with Dignity
laws nationwide."
She has been an international celebrity with stories in
Time, New York Times, L. A. Times, USA Today, CNN, PBS,
ABC, CBS and on and on and on. Smith writes that if she
followed Michael Langdon's path none of these stories
would have been written and Rosie O'Donnell would never
have applauded her on TV. So, Smith says, if assisted
suicide is now considered "courageous," and killing
yourself is "death with dignity," doesn't that imply
that people like Michael Langdon who choose to fight for
their lives are undignified and perhaps less courageous?
I bring this up because it represents one of many, many
areas in our society where what was once thought to be a
genuine value has been dropped in favor of its complete
opposite. Twenty-three years ago a man who fought
against death and used his remaining time to be with his
family was considered courageous. Today, Brittany
Maynard plans to kill herself and uses her time to
campaign against laws that forbid suicide and she is
considered courageous. Just in 23 years! Which position
is true? They can't both be true. They can't both be
seen as guidelines or examples of how people ought to
live, in the face of death.
It seems to me that we live in an age where truth has
lost its importance as a guide to life. Truth has become
the victim of sentimentality, personal circumstances,
and an ever-expanding claim of the right of people to do
whatever they want to do under the sacred freedom of
being able to make "choices." Truth does not stand much
of a chance. The pro-suicide group used to call itself
the "Hemlock Society," which pointed to the truth of its
goals. Now it calls itself, "Compassion and Choices."
How could you possible go against that? It used to call
itself, "Poison," and now it calls itself, "Puppies and
Butterflies." Where's the truth?
Twenty-three years ago, almost everyone believed that
marriage was supposed to be a solemn union between a man
and a woman for the purpose of love and the raising of a
family. They thought that was
true, but in so many, many cases, they did not live by
that truth. So today we end up with more and more people
who no longer believe it is true, and marriage in many
states no longer requires a man and a woman.
Of course, I can go on and on giving examples, but my
real point is about how we want to live. Do we want to
live according to what is good, true and even holy? Or
shall we follow what is good for today, true for me and
not wholly satisfying? Can "Poison" really become
"Puppies and Butterflies?" What do we think will become
of us, if, like modern day Pontius Pilates, we continue
to ask, "Truth. What does
that mean?" And so many people
fall away from the Church not because they are searching
for the truth but because they don't find the truth to
be very useful to the way they want to live. What
matters most is what you think is good. And that's good
enough.
Christ our Lord became a man in order to bring us to the
truth and to save us from lies and deception. The truth
of our Faith is solid, enriching, and unchangeable,
because truth cannot change and because Christ cannot
lie. As you may know there is an Extraordinary Synod on
the Family taking place in Rome and the secular media is
waiting to see what doctrines will be changed so that
the Church will match up with the current values of
Western society. But they will be disappointed once
again because the truth of Christ cannot be changed. If
I thought that were possible, I would not be up here
speaking to you today. I'd be an Episcopalian minister.
Those guys don't mind changing doctrine every year or
two and there's a lot more money to be made. The only
difference between me and TV evangelist Joel Osteen is
that he will only tell his people what they want to hear
(and about 6 million dollars). But you, and me, we must
stick to the truth of Christ, the Gospel Truth, even
though we are tempted, even though we may fail at times,
even though we may not always understand it completely,
even though we may struggle to live in it because of our
personal weaknesses, let us never abandon the truth and
trade it in for lies, deceptions and ignorance. To live
according to Christ's teachings is to be at the very
heart of compassion and mercy and we should never
apologize for standing there. Quite the opposite; we
should be so grateful we've been called. And in that
gratitude, let's not only be happy that we have the
knowledge of His truth, let's also be willing to share
that truth with whoever will listen—share it in
peace and in gladness.