As many of you know there are plenty of articles to read
on the internet. It used to be that you could only read
what was written on paper in the form of books,
magazines and newspapers, and you had to actually hold
that article or book in your hands. Now on the internet,
we have access to billions of books and articles written
by the famous and the important as well as by your
neighbor next door. You don't need to go out and buy
what you read or have it delivered to your doorstep or
mailbox. All you need is internet access and you have
it. Pretty amazing change that rivals the invention of
the printing press.
But as you may also know, if you read articles on the
internet and if people are allowed to write comments
about the article something very interesting and very
nasty might happen, especially if the comments are not
closely watched before they are posted, or if they're
not edited at all, and especially if the article is on
religion, ethics, and morality or politics. Comments
from people start to show up who do not agree with the
religious content of the article, or they do not agree
with the ethics or morality or political viewpoint of
whoever wrote the article, no matter what the piece is
actually about. They just don't like your religion, your
morality, your political party and they don't care about
what you actually wrote.
Their comments are not about disagreement, or perhaps
their own frustrations. They are not thoughtful replies
to give another side to the issue at hand, or to express
an opposite stance to the ideas in the text. Instead
what you read are comments that resort to name calling,
insults, vulgarities, abusive language,
misrepresentations, and, many times, all too many times,
childish ranting without any evidence of actual thought
or reasonable ideas. The comments turn into the kind of
verbal combat often used by second-graders.
And if the article is on certain topics and the Church's
teaching, you can be sure there will be abusive and
emotional outbursts from those who do not accept those
teachings. Here is an example I made up to illustrate my
point. "You Catholics are all haters, who hate people
and you hate and hate, because you're bigots and haters
who don't care about people because you hate with so
much hate. I hate to hate your hateful ideas of hatred
and bigotry. And more than anything else, I hate
haters."
Because we're in church and because I respect you, I
have not included the typical vulgarities and
obscenities that often are added to such comments to
provide extra color. That's why on a number of sites I
don't even bother to read the comments, knowing they are
likely to be poisoned with fierce words, insulting
remarks, and the ignorance of some members of the
public.
I think about why people write comments that are so
abusive, vulgar and disrespectful. Of course they are
not centered on reason, logic or
thoughtfulness—just emotional outbursts of anger,
prejudice and even hate. I think that these kinds of
comments reflect the sad state of people who want to
experience power by bashing other people, by trying to
demean them and shame them and ridicule them. These
emotionally charged comments, which are often written
with little or no punctuation or grammar, are thought to
be effective vehicles for power
because they are emotional.
The hotter the words, the cruder the language, the
harsher the tone, the greater the insult—these are
the weapons that such people use in order to exert some
sense of power over other people.
It's how they feel that seems to be the basis for their
thoughts and actions, and their interactions with people
with whom they disagree on the internet are often
attempts to produce an emotional response in them. They
hope to produce responses of anger, or fear or shame, or
defensiveness—evidence that their own power is
effective, if not, invincible. It reflects a style of
living that is largely centered on feelings and emotions
as the foundations for thought and action.
St. Paul today, gives us, reminds us, of our foundation
as Christians, for
our thoughts and actions, and
uses himself as an example: "With Christ I am nailed to
the cross. It is now no longer I that live but Christ
lives in me. And the life I live now in the flesh, I
live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave
himself up for me."
It's not by our feelings that we shall find the fullness
of life. It's not through our emotions that we will gain
increasing place and satisfaction for ourselves. It's
not by attempts to overpower other people that we will
find victory and success. It is only by faith in Christ
crucified, it is only by surrendering my life to Him,
and more and more as times goes on—it is only then
I can live life to the fullest both now and forever. And
may that then produce in us a joy that invites others to
do the same.