I was discouraged the other day. I saw the results of a
poll done by the Pew Research Organization. This poll
was taken in the early months of 2014, and it consisted
of two questions that were asked of Catholics in the
United States. The first question was, "Do you think
homosexuality should be accepted or discouraged? Of
course there is a problem right off the bat. What does
the question mean? If it means accepting that there
are homosexual people, then
there is no problem there of course, and why would you
want to discourage people, any kind of people? As is so
often the problem in these matters, there is no accuracy
in the way things are discussed. Does the question mean
homosexual activity, relations with people of the same
sex? Likely that's what they are talking about. But then
why not ask the question directly, such as, "Do you
think homosexual acts are moral or immoral?" That's very
plain and clear. Once you use language like, "accept,"
it sounds as though you are talking more about accepting
people not about specific behaviors. Let's change it up
a little. Here is another question, "Do you think
heterosexuality should be accepted or discouraged? If
that question sounds stupid to you in this context, I
think it points out how dumb it is to use it in the
other context. Accept? Accept what? People or certain
behaviors? There is a huge difference between those two
things.
But let us assume that the poll question means accepting
or discouraging homosexual
behavior, which is probably the intention of the people
conducting the pool. And here is where the
discouragement comes in. Of Catholics 18-29 years old,
85% of those polled said that homosexuality should be
accepted. All Catholics in general, 70% answered the
same. Even more surprising, of Catholics who attend Mass
every week or more often, 60% said homosexuality should
be accepted.
Then there is a second, equally discouraging poll
question that was asked, "Do you support or oppose
same-sex marriage?" Catholics age 18-29 favor same-sex
marriage by a 75% approval rate. All Catholics favor it
by 57%, and even Catholics who attend Mass every week or
more often give their approval by 45%. I could not
believe my eyes. I mean, I can understand that if you
include people who say they are Catholic but don't
practice or live their faith, then the numbers would be
leaning a certain way, but when you get results like
this from people who are at least going to church every
week, it reveals a huge problem in faith among many
Catholics. And if older Catholics hold these views in
such numbers, then it is not a surprise if even younger
Catholics do so even more. What is the problem? It's a
huge misunderstanding or else a refusal to accept the
truth of Christ as passed down to us in His Church.
It is the teaching of Christ, delivered to us in His
Church, that marriage is a sacred union of a man and a
woman who pledge to love one another faithfully for life
and accept children as a gift from God, raising those
children in the love of the Lord. Sexual relations
outside of marriage are always considered to be most
seriously wrong. Those are the relevant points. This was
and always has been considered to be the truth of Christ
throughout Christian history, even by Protestant
churches all the way down to the most modern times. But
for the past 50 years these truths have been chipped
away from the public morality of our country and,
following, from the personal moral code of so many
people.
How so? I've mentioned these before, but I'm so shocked
by reading these poll results, I want to do it again,
please. Overwhelming acceptance of artificial
contraception, the overwhelming numbers of marriages
that end in divorce, the almost total acceptance of
sexual relations outside of marriage and even in many
cases adulterous situations, the acceptance of abortion,
the proliferation of pornography the sexualization of
children at a young age, the overwhelming number of
pregnancies outside of marriage, the high respect
afforded to Planned Parenthood as an organization (and
as someone noted to me recently, the last thing that
group does is plan anyone for parenthood) all these
things individually and together have led us to
disregard the teaching of Christ in favor of doing what
we want, and so bit by bit, we turn from truth and end
up in the arena of personal opinion, not just moral
failings—we are all sinners—but it's when we
deny sin, that we are in trouble. It has led us to this
place today where moral values are up for grabs.
Apparently, but perhaps I really shouldn't be so
surprised, when I look back over the past few decades,
apparently we, even as the Church, in this country can
no longer accept the word of Jesus Christ, but in a new
wave of Protestantism each person is left to decide for
themselves what is true and what is false. We no longer
know what marriage is about, nor what it means to be a
man or a woman, or what place children have in a
marriage, or what human sexuality is all about. We no
longer have a clear understanding of what is true, or
where truth can be found, outside of our personal
opinion. We are like Pontius Pilate who wondered what
truth meant, even as Jesus was standing in front of him.
For me this is the bottom line, this is the foundational
question: Do we accept Jesus Christ as our Lord and
Savior, or do we not? That is
THE question, because there is no
question about His teaching in these matters. All the
Christian churches have taught these truths until our
generation challenged them. And to those Christian
groups which have now changed their minds on these
matters, if we could not trust you before, how can we
trust you now? And if you think the Church has not
carried this truth to us from Christ, then everything is
up for grabs, so why even bother? Jesus left us without
any way to know what is right or wrong, or what we need
to do to live good lives? If we do not accept the
teaching of the son of God, then we do not accept Jesus
as the Son of God If He is mistaken about the nature of
human life, marriage, family—then your opinions
are as good as His. Would we be willing to stand up
before Him today, if He were right in front of us, and
say, "Jesus, I think you are wrong about this, and the
church you gave us to teach your truth is also wrong
about this."? If Jesus is not infallible, then why
follow Him? And if we are swayed by public opinion, do
we believe most people are smarter than us? And if we
are afraid that people will not like us or they will
call us names and accuse us of being hateful people,
should we not be the people who have the courage of our
convictions and show the world that our love for Christ
and for our neighbor cannot be shaken by threats and
insults, even as many in the world today suffer terrible
hardships for their faith? If people stand up and say,
"You hate gays!" and we say, "We do not hate gays," who
is telling the truth?
Dear Friends, at the bottom of all this are the most
basic of all questions. Do we accept Jesus Christ as the
Son of God, Our Lord and Savior? Do we accept that He
gave us a Church, His Body, to guide us in His message
and His truth? Do we believe that His truth cannot ever
be false or change?
It's the same question asked three times at every
Baptism: "Do you believe in Christ?"
The apostle Thomas had a faith problem until he stood in
front of the Risen Christ. He didn't say, "Truth. What
does that mean?" like a certain Roman procurator. We
stand here today in a different but very real way before
the risen Christ. Then let us also say it: "My Lord, and
my God!"