I was reading an article in National Geographic magazine
interviewing Dr. Vivek Murthy who was the last Surgeon
General of the USA. He was praising the power of
emotions and believes we need to cultivate emotional
well-being by using the proper tools. Those tools are
“sleep, physical activity, contemplative practices like
gratitude and meditation and social connection as well.”
In the same magazine, in an article about addiction, one
doctor who specializes in therapy for addicts believes
the best hope for treating addicts is by joining science
with Buddhist meditation techniques. Two articles in the
same magazine praising the effectiveness of meditation.
And I thought, “what about prayer, the power of prayer?”
Meditation is good; but prayer is almost never mentioned
as a human activity and a force for good.
So why is that? Meditation is something you do,
something that you control. But prayer has a different
target. It acknowledges God. It’s not all about me.
Prayer is about Him. I think of how little prayer is
even mentioned in our modern society. Think about all
the movies and TV programs you have watched these past
few years. How often do you see people praying? You will
sometimes see people in church for a wedding or a
funeral, but they are not praying. They’re just
attending a ritual. They’re observers not participants.
There are still a lot of believing Christians in the USA
but as we look around we don’t see much evidence of
their faith in our society. We’re supposed to be about
the here and now, this world, this life, under my
control as much as is possible. What are Sunday mornings
for? Sleeping in late, walking the dog, taking it easy.
The last time you saw anyone in a film or on TV going to
church on a Sunday morning—when was that? So I suggest
to you that because we live in a world where God is not
acknowledged we need to do our part to be sure we are
living a life that is very mindful of Him.
I was listening for a few minutes to local Catholic
radio and the host was interviewing the parish council
president of St. Mary’s Cathedral in Portland. The man
said he wants the cathedral to become an important place
in the life of Portlanders. He said, “When people are
getting together to go to a movie I’d like them to meet
in the cathedral courtyard, things like that. Pope
Francis said that when people come to church we
shouldn’t hit them over the head with doctrine, but
instead we should be welcoming. We need to use the
cathedral to make our voice heard in Portland society.”
I was struck by how horizontal his thinking was.
Couldn’t people, and shouldn’t people, come to the
cathedral to pray instead of just as a meeting place?
How are people being hit over the head with doctrine
when they come to church? Here is a piece of
doctrine—God loves you more than anything else in the
universe. Is that a horrible message? And we need to
make our voices heard in the community? I think the
cathedral should be proclaiming the word of God to the
community not some political or social agenda that we
think should be endorsed. It seemed to me that this man
sees little difference between coming to the cathedral
for Mass or attending a meeting of the local Kiwanis
Club.
Dear friends, we live in a very secular and secularizing
world. That’s the way it is. But how sad for us if we
let that mentality become our own way of thinking, our
own way of living our lives. Do we neglect praying every
day because we say we have no time, or because we are
lazy, or because it is not pleasurable or entertaining?
How often during the day do we turn our minds to Christ,
or to the words of Scripture, or think about what our
faith might be prompting us to say or do? Of all the
celebrations we observe during a year, how many are
rooted in faith? When was the last time we made a
genuine prayer of thanks to God? How easy do we find it
to skip Sunday Liturgy? Of all the people you interact
with on a regular basis outside the home, what
percentage of them do you think know that you’re
Catholic? And what do you think about that?
The world has never and is never going to tell us that
the Lord is God, Who loves us and wants us to live in
His life. And these days, more and more, the world is
telling us that normal people don’t really live lives of
faith. We must make our own way in faith. We must pray
every day. We must love God, and that does not require
emotion, but rather faithfulness and devotion. We must
love our neighbor for the sake of Christ and sometimes
our neighbor is rather unlovable, but still we try, for
the sake of Christ. We must find ways to remind
ourselves that this is not our lasting home, and Christ
is among us if we only look around to see Him. For
example, what would happen if you got into the habit
that every time you got into a car you said an “Our
Father”? If you said a tiny prayer for the person in
front of you at the checkout line, instead of checking
out what they bought, mentally commenting on it as good
or bad? What if you prayed for the other passengers when
traveling on an airplane or a train? We need to find
ways to remind ourselves that we are the sons and
daughters of the Living God, not simply people passing
through this world. Christ is among us, but He may not
be seen if we are not looking for Him.