St. Paul writes to the Corinthians in today's epistle,
saying, “When ridiculed, we bless; when persecuted, we
endure; when slandered, we respond gently. We have
become like the world's rubbish, the scum of all, to
this very moment.” Paul accepted the harsh treatment
that came along with the office of being an apostle and
he speaks of being hungry, thirsty, poorly dressed,
roughly treated, hard working at labor and having no
permanent place to call home. But when he speaks of
being ridiculed, persecuted and slandered, he's not
speaking just of what has come his way from Gentiles and
non-believing Jews. He's also including those fellow
Christians who have treated him in this way, and he
warns the Corinthians to change their behavior because
if they do not he will surely take action when he
returns to Corinth.
I was thinking of Paul's virtue and comparing it to
mine. I think if I were writing to the Corinthians I
would have had to write, “When ridiculed, I ridicule
back; when slandered, I slander back; when persecuted, I
get a lawyer.” In this section of his letter and
following, Paul encourages and even demands that his
flock grow up and mature in their behavior and their
attitudes towards him, towards one another in the world.
He raises a number of problems he has heard about and he
demands they be corrected, because although he may be
treated like scum, he is, in fact, powered by the grace
of God. Earlier in this same letter he wrote that they
also should not be living as natural persons, but rather
as people who are led by the Spirit; not according to
human wisdom, but by the wisdom of God.
It made me reflect on our own society. I think, to a
certain degree, we have lost the idea of the importance
of becoming morally excellent people, and instead have
settled for being "natural people." "We were born this
way, we were raised this way, this is the way we choose
to be and we have no real desire to become better
persons because there is nothing wrong with us the way
we are right now." That's a cultural way of seeing life
that was hatched in the 1960s and has been growing ever
since. A book written in 1969 entitled, "I'm OK, You're
OK," was just one example of this type of attitude
towards moral behavior. That was written now 50 years
ago. Hard to imagine. “I’m OK, You’re OK.” It should
have been called, "I'm OK, Who Cares about You?" because
when behavior is judged by my own standards, how
important can other people really be? (And if you are
truly "OK" why do you need to read the book?)
Who is to decide what is right or wrong, better or
worse, moral or immoral? The answer today for all too
many people is that I am the only judge worthy of making
these decisions. There is no absolute code of behavior
that I need to guide me, no objective standard that
tells me how to live, except the civil law, and even
that can always be changed. And it has changed, quite a
bit in the last 50 years. If I am the only real judge of
my behavior, is it likely I will be hard on myself, or
more accepting of whatever it is I wish to do, even if
it has, in the past, been considered illegal, immoral, a
sin?
Here's what I find so interesting: in the pagan world of
Rome and Greece there were plenty of evils. Imagine
taking your lunch to the Coliseum to watch people being
eaten by wild animals and burned alive for your
amusement. But even with all the evils of the pagan
world there were still frequent calls from people in
government and society for moral excellence, to strive
for virtues such as honesty, integrity, self-sacrifice
for home and country and the importance of family life.
But today, how often do we hear a call from our leaders
and people of influence to live according to higher
principles and greater virtue? Who is encouraging us to
live morally on TV, or in films, or in the music or
sports industries? Who among the famous and revered
public figures hold up for us a higher standard of
behavior and attitudes towards life? And in the public
sphere, our institutions have dropped one moral
prohibition after another, year after year, heading us
all not to greater freedom and moral excellence, but
rather to the least common denominator, and the
ever-lowering standards of what is acceptable and good.
Almost all of the admonitions we hear today in public
life are not about rejecting evil, but rather excusing
sinful deeds using explanations that try to show that
such things are not evil at all. The talk is all about
“rights”—and we are supposed to understand that “rights”
can never be wrong.
The Church in Corinth wasn't living in a city known for
its great morality, and St. Paul was frustrated with
them because they were not growing in moral maturity—in
fact he even accuses them of accepting sins that even
the pagans found repulsive. He calls them big babies.
They talk, talk, talk like sophisticated, witty and
knowledgeable people, but they often live as children
who have no self-control, thinking and acting much as
they did before their conversions, thinking and acting
much the same as their pagan neighbors. So, how's about
us?
Christianity, as I have said before, is not a religion
of moral rules. It is a faith in Jesus Christ where we
strive to live according to the truth He has revealed to
us, where we work to become all the best that we were
created to be. It is not easy to give up sinful ways. It
is not easy to grow in virtue. We see that when we are
trying to raise our children to lead good lives.
Parents, you know how much your children struggle to do
good and avoid evil. And does that struggle end for our
own selves once we become adults? Of course not. Instead
of our parents now teaching us right from wrong we, as
adults look to Christ our Lord; we, as adults, look to
His church for guidance.
So today, I want to encourage you. Every time you turn
away from temptation, you build yourself up in maturity
and humanity. Every time you hold on to the truth and
stand up for it when needed, even in the face of
disapproval or ridicule, you build yourself up as a
disciple of Christ. Every attempt and effort you make to
hold your tongue when it is right to do so, every time
when you open your wallet when called for, every time
you ask pardon for sins committed, and every time you
pardon those who have offended you, every time you
struggle against temptation, study the Scriptures, heed
the commandments, every time you sacrifice comfort and
pleasure in exchange for grace and virtue; every time
you avoid evil and reach out for what is good and
blessed, you bring the light of Christ more brightly
into your life, your home and this world we live in.
Every time. It is not easy, but it is absolutely
worthwhile. Every time.
Holiness is the fullness of life in Christ. Grace is
free but living in it requires effort and strength and
dedication. So, let's be clear with ourselves how
important it is that we continue to grow in this way of
living, and let's be encouraged that all of our efforts
will lead us home, to the home we were born to dwell in
forever.