St. Paul writes to the Corinthians in today's epistle,
saying, "When ridiculed, we bless; when persecuted, we
endure; when slandered, we respond gently. We have
become like the world's rubbish, the scum of all, to
this very moment." Paul accepted the harsh treatment
that came along with the office of being an apostle and
he speaks of being hungry, thirsty, poorly dressed,
roughly treated, hard working at labor and having no
permanent place to call home. But when he speaks of
being ridiculed, persecuted and slandered, he's not
speaking just of what has come his way from Gentiles and
non-believing Jews. He's also including those fellow
Christians who have treated him in this way, and he
warns the Corinthians to change their behavior because
if they do not, he will surely take action when he
returns to Corinth.
I was thinking of Paul's virtue and comparing it to
mine. I think I would have had to write, "When
ridiculed, I ridicule back; when slandered, I slander
back; when persecuted, I get a lawyer." In this section
of his letter and following, Paul encourages and even
demands that his flock grow up and mature in their
behavior and their attitudes towards him, towards one
another in the world. He raises a number of problems he
has heard about and he demands they be corrected,
because although he may be treated like scum, he is, in
fact, powered by the grace of God. Earlier he had
written that they also should not be living as natural
persons, but rather as people who are led by the Spirit;
not according to human wisdom, but by the wisdom of God.
It made me reflect on our own society. I think, to a
certain degree, we have lost the idea of the importance
of becoming morally excellent people, and instead have
settled for being "natural people." "We were born this
way, we were raised this way, this is the way we choose
to be, and we have no real desire to become better
persons because there is nothing wrong with us the way
we are right now." That's a cultural way of seeing life
that was hatched in the 1960s and has been growing ever
since. A book written in 1969 entitled, "I'm OK, You're
OK," was just one example of this type of attitude
towards moral behavior. It should have been called, "I'm
OK, Who Cares about You?" because when behavior is
judged by my own standards, how important can other
people really be? (And if you are truly "OK" why do you
need to read the book?)
Who is to decide what is right or wrong, better or
worse, moral or immoral? The answer today for all too
many people is that I am the only judge worthy of making
these decisions. There is no absolute code of behavior
that I need to guide me, no objective standard that
tells me how to live, except the civil law, and even
that can always be changed. And it has changed, quite a
bit in the last 50 years. If I am the only real judge of
my behavior, is it likely I will be hard on myself, or
more accepting of whatever it is I wish to do, even if
it has, in the past, been considered a sin?
Here's what I find so interesting: even in the pagan
world of Rome and Greece, with all the evils that came
with their cultures, in contrast to Christianity. But
even so, there were still frequent calls from people in
government and society for moral excellence, to strive
for virtues such as honesty, integrity, self-sacrifice
for home and country and the importance of family life.
But today, how often do we hear a call from our leaders
and people of influence to live according to higher
principles and greater virtue? Who is encouraging us to
live morally on TV, or in films, or in the music or
sports industries? Who among the famous and revered
people hold up for us a higher standard of behavior and
attitudes towards life? And in the public sphere, our
institutions have dropped one moral prohibition after
another, year after year, heading us all not to greater
freedom and moral excellence, but rather to the least
common denominator, and the ever-lowering standards of
what is acceptable and good. Most of the admonitions we
hear today are not about rejecting evil but excusing
sinful deeds or even glorifying them.
The Church in Corinth wasn't living in a city known for
its great morality, and St. Paul was frustrated with
them because they were not growing in moral maturity—in
fact he even accuses them of accepting sins that even
the pagans found repulsive. He calls them big babies.
They talk, talk, talk like sophisticated, witty and
knowledgeable people, but they often live as children
who have no self-control, thinking and acting much as
they did before their conversions, thinking and acting
much the same as their pagan neighbors. So, how's about
us?
Christianity, as I have said before, is not a religion
of moral rules. It is a faith in Jesus Christ where we
strive to live according to the truth He has revealed to
us, where we work to become all the best that we were
created to be. It is not easy to give up sinful ways. It
is not easy to grow in virtue. We see that when we are
trying to raise our children to lead good lives. Does
that struggle end for our own selves once we become
adults? Of course not. Instead of our parents now
teaching us right from wrong we, as adults look to
Christ our Lord; we, as adults, look to His church for
guidance. No longer do mom and dad encourage us to do
what is right, and correct and punish us when we do
wrong. We must struggle for ourselves. Let’s not be
afraid to keep struggling!
So today, I want to encourage you. Every time you turn
away from temptation, you build yourself up in maturity
and humanity. Every time you hold on to the truth and
stand up for it when needed, even in the face of
disapproval or ridicule, you build yourself up as a
disciple of Christ. Every attempt and effort you make to
hold your tongue when needed, open your wallet when
called for, ask pardon for sins committed, pardon those
who have offended you, struggle against temptation,
study the Scriptures, heed the commandments, sacrifice
comfort and pleasure in exchange for grace and virtue;
every time you avoid evil and reach out for what is good
and blessed, you bring the light of Christ more brightly
into your life, your home and this world we live in.
Pick a virtue you want to have more of and struggle to
grow in it. Pick a sin or weakness you need to get rid
of and pray and fight against it no matter how many
times you fall.
Holiness is the fullness of life in Christ. Grace is
free but living in it requires effort and strength and
dedication. So, let's be clear with ourselves how
important it is that we continue to grow in this way of
living, and let's be encouraged that all of our efforts
will lead us to the land that, in our best moments, we
truly long for.