To surrender. The idea of surrender is one way to
describe what we do for a decent portion of our living
days. We have our habits, routines, duties, obligations,
necessities for life and patterns that form our days.
These are the things we do and the way we act after we
get out of bed, or when we go to work or school, or
shopping or to church. It can be about the way we cook,
the foods we eat, what we do at our jobs or school. It
can be about how we spend our evenings, or how we raise
our children, or about what we do on the internet. There
are so many areas of our life that are largely governed
by our habits or following our sense of habitual duty.
And, as a rule, we surrender to these patterns and
habits most of the time. That's not a bad thing. Indeed,
it can be very helpful. Imagine having to make every
decision and thinking about ever action, every single
day. “Should I go to work? Should I feed the children?
Should I wear clothes today?” Having to make so many
choices would choke our lives. So, we surrender to a
good number of our habits and patterns and that can be a
very helpful thing, allowing our lives to run more
smoothly and efficiently. If we had to make all those
choices about every single element in our lives, over
and over again every day, "choice" would soon become a
dirty word.
In this way of speaking, "choice" is the opposite of
"surrender." Granted almost every habit begins with a
choice, but after that we often surrender to the habit
usually without a direct and thoughtful choice. And I
propose to you that the people in today's Gospel who are
bound for hell are the people who had way too much
"surrender" in their lives. We often think of the
hell-bound as people who do very bad things, and of
course that’s one good way to get to hell, if that’s
your plan.
But here the Lord surprises us with a very different
outlook. The people who are going to hell are also the
people who did not choose. They did not step out of
their daily patterns and ways of thinking and acting.
They did not look past their somewhat comfortable
surrender to the life they had arranged for themselves
in order to choose to help people in need of their time,
in need of their money, their comfort, their prayers,
their personal assistance. They did not choose to help
those in trouble. They preferred their comfort and
routine. Because helping the hungry, the thirsty, the
sick, those in prison, those without decent
clothes—these things are not part of our regular daily
habits and patterns. They are not part of our routines.
They are not about the patterns of our regular round of
activities. We have to choose to see the needs of others
and then we have to choose to do something about them.
Those who know how to choose wisely are those who can
look past the comfort of the regular daily surrenders
and see there are other needs that must also be looked
after. Such people are heaven-bound, not simply because
they do good for others, but because when they follow
the commands of the Lord to love their neighbor, both in
word and in deed, they are in fact serving Him.
How are we helped to see what we should choose, and how
we should choose it? We grow in our awareness and in our
ability to make those good kinds of choices, ironically,
by our surrender. But it's not the surrender to habits
and patterns that we have made, but rather a greater
surrender of ourselves to Christ our Lord. Our
willingness to read and to hear His words, our
willingness to choose to spend more and better time with
Him, our willingness to worship Him, to follow Him, to
better conform our lives to His truth, these things lead
us to better recognize how we ought to see, and what we
ought to do, in order to serve Him and to serve Him in
our neighbor. There is nothing necessarily wrong with
surrendering to our good daily habits and routines
unless they are keeping us from surrendering ourselves
more completely to Christ.
Lent is a season given to help us shake it up a little
bit, or even shake it up a lot. The same routines
produce the same results. The same ways of thinking
produce the same ways of acting. The same viewpoints and
observations will produce nothing new or better for our
own lives or anyone else's life. The same kinds of
surrender will keep us in the same situation, not a
better place.
The changes we need to make to become better Christians
will probably not drop into our lives on their own. But
they will come, more and more, if we choose to surrender
ourselves to Jesus. Then, like the heaven-bound people
in today’s Gospel, we set our sights more intensely on
what He has asked us to do, how He has asked us to
believe, and Who He has asked us to love, and how He has
asked us to love them. (Choices)
In our times, much of the culture believes that the
primary job of the Church and for Christians is to help
the poor, and this Gospel today might seem to support
that idea. But of course, this is not true. The primary
goal of Christians is to love and to serve our Lord, and
to do that even by loving and serving our neighbor. This
is one of the reasons I do not support the Eugene St.
Vincent de Paul Society. I am not talking about the
local parish conferences, such as those St. Vincent de
Paul groups at St. Alice, or St. Paul’s churches. I’m
talking about the big Eugene St. Vincent de Paul unit
that has all the secondhand stores. I don’t criticize
that group because the people behind it do not do good
works, but because they do good works apart from Christ,
and do it under the name of St. Vincent de Paul. St.
Vincent de Paul would certainly be appalled by the way
they abuse his name and his mission. You will not find
the name of Jesus on their website, but that name was
constantly on the mind, the heart and the lips of St.
Vincent de Paul. I would much rather support an agency
like Catholic Community Services which tries to operate
under the Gospel of Christ, because we are not called to
simply do good works. We are called to serve the Lord,
and to also serve Him in our neighbor.
The season for choices is coming upon us once again.
Let's not surrender to the sameness of our status quo
but set our minds aright toward the glory of God and
continue to struggle to better surrender ourselves to
Him.