I was talking with a fine Catholic man from another
parish recently and he had watched a short video message
from the abbot of Mt. Angel Abbey. He said the talk made
him think about his speech and how careless he sometimes
was with the words that came out of his mouth. Words
that were sometimes insulting, rude, careless,
ungrateful, judgmental, harsh, and unnecessary. He
decided to pay much more attention to his speech and try
to conform it towards a better pattern of speaking that
is more proper to a Christian man. I was really
encouraged by his insight into his behavior and his
willingness to take on the challenge of change. My
speech, and perhaps yours as well, could use some better
screening and attention. Just the other day we had Jesus
telling us in the Gospel that it’s not what goes into a
man’s mouth that make him unclean, but rather the things
that can come out of his mouth.
And as we heard in today’s epistle, St. Paul says: “For
Christ did not please himself; but, as it is written,
‘The insults of those who insult you fall upon me.’”
On the other side of the coin, I think it’s also true
that we often do not say as much good as we should:
words of encouragement, thanks, prayer, congratulations,
instruction, sympathy. Those words which are helpful,
healing and work to support the spiritual good of our
neighbor.
Also, from today’s epistle: “May the God of endurance
and encouragement grant you to think in harmony with one
another, in keeping with Christ Jesus, that with one
accord you may with one voice glorify the God and Father
of our Lord Jesus Christ.” To speak with one voice and
use that voice, the words of our mouth, the words that
come from our hearts and our souls, to give glory to
God! That’s why we are here today!
And finally, St. Paul says, “Welcome one another, as
Christ has welcomed you, for the glory of God.” How
great it is when we do that. When we welcome one
another. It gives glory to God. And how blessed I am to
know people like you who DO welcome one another, and not
only one another but even the stranger.
I read the headline on a newspaper article the other
day. 47 straight days of protesting in Portland.
Protesting can be a legitimate way to make a statement.
But 47 days? What is the point? It seems to me that
there is no point, no real goal or objective. Some
people just like to protest. But if we talk about the
times during those 47 days when there was rioting,
burning, and looting, the point at that time was
obviously to destroy and ruin and steal. I don’t see how
chanting the same tired phrases over and over again, day
after day, contributes to changing anything. It becomes
nothing more than empty chatter. Where are the positive
results from all this protesting, and especially what
good has come from the times of rioting and destruction?
If we move from the streets and go to the internet, I
think it’s easy to see there is often more division on
the web than there is dialog. And sadly, it is not just
a division between people who have different
perspectives and viewpoints. More often the division
shows up as hostility, name-calling, demeaning remarks,
vulgar and indecent language used against those who are
seen as the enemy. Words are used not to persuade or
educate, but instead to crush the enemy into dust, and
sometimes, if possible, words are used against other
people in the hope that they might lose their jobs.
Several decades ago, I used to enjoy reading the
comments that followed a good website article because
often there was something more to be learned there from
other people. But anymore, I usually can’t get very far
before someone starts a senseless attack against the
author or someone else, and the battle is on…and I get
out. Words become weapons to be used not against ideas
but against other people. When I was young, in another
century, the only way to have many other people read
your words was to get a book or article published, or
write a letter to the editor of the newspaper. Now your
words can be instantly published, world-wide for a
potential audience of 4.5 billion people. Has that power
resulted in words being used for the greater good, or
not? That’s the question.
We who follow Christ, the Word of God—what about our
words? Are they more negative than uplifting or helpful?
Are they more caring or more careless? Do we speak more
in anger and frustration than we do in praise or
gratitude? Do we talk to others with respect or is it,
more often, all about us? How many times do we criticize
compared to how many times we compliment or comfort
other people? It’s truly worth thinking about how we
speak, and how we ought to speak in this current world
where words are more often used to condemn than to
welcome one another, as St. Paul writes. And this is a
good place here, right now, to pay attention to our
words. Be attentive! Budmo uvazhny! We sing beautiful
words here today.
The praise that we offer here at this Liturgy has the
genuine power to lift us up from the lowly and often
hostile environment we find in our daily lives. As we
try to set aside all earthly cares for this time, let
our words lift us up so that grace can change our
hearts, and so that we can draw closer to the very heart
of Christ our Lord. He wants to change our lives.
“May the God of endurance and encouragement grant you to
think in harmony with one another, in keeping with
Christ Jesus, that with one accord you may with one
voice glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus
Christ.”