Dr. Paul Glanzer is a professor at Baylor University in
Texas. It’s a Baptist school, and one of its specialties
under Dr. Glanzer is conducting surveys of people’s
ideas about religion, politics and culture. This past
week I read a short piece he wrote about a recent survey
of college students and says, “When we asked Baylor
students what the good life looks like to them 10 years
from now, what they describe is the opposite of
suffering. They do not want riches; they merely want one
of the most dangerous idols of them all…(they want) to
be comfortable.” And he quoted a priest who warned,
“this current ideology of comfort is anti-Christian at
its very essence.”
This kind of surprised me and so I began to think about
it and realize how easy it is to slip into that way of
thinking, we who live in richest country in the world.
How easy it is to choose comfort as one of the highest
priorities in life. Is there something wrong with
comfort? Not in and of itself. If you’re cold, put on a
sweater. If you have a craving for a steak, light up the
barbeque. If you’ve had a rough day, then sing the
blues. In fact, we just sang, “Heavenly King,
Comforter….” Trying to get comfortable can be a fine and
good thing.
But it can also be a source of sin and an expression of
self-centeredness. If I am always buying sweaters
because it makes me feel good; if I put a second steak
on the grill for myself; if I am so busy singing the
blues that I neglect my family, then those kinds of
comforts are certainly wrong. When the desire to feel
good results in actions that are morally wrong according
to the Gospel, then comfort becomes an occasion for sin.
I think about the great value that those Baylor students
put on feeling comfortable, and I think about how
comfort is found not just in the use of physical things,
but also attitudes, beliefs, and behaviors. I tell a lie
because I don’t want to get into trouble, or because I
am embarrassed. I get involved in gossip when it makes
me feel superior to other people. I don’t speak up when
I should speak up, because I don’t want to feel
different from other people or I don’t want to be
criticized for disagreeing with popular ideas, even if
they go against the truth my faith teaches me. I am
afraid of speaking up for Christian values because I
fear I might offend relatives and friends, even if they
don’t seem to worry about offending me.
Living a life of comfort can include things like ending
an unwanted pregnancy, misusing alcohol or drugs,
blaming others for my own failures, choosing a personal
morality that is based on my own ideas of what is right
and wrong, good and bad; serving others when I feel like
it and making sure that I am as well taken care of as I
can possibly be. This kind of life is based on a
self-centeredness that goes completely against our
faith. Where comfort is king, Christ is not. How far
will people go to live this type of life? I think we are
seeing that more and more as we look around at our
society, where people seem to place greater and greater
emphasis on the unrestrained freedom of the individual
and yet, strangely enough, many of the same people who
work very hard to try and silence and shame those who
stand against their new-found morality.
In the epistle we read on Friday, St. Paul wrote about
his sufferings as an apostle, because it was a tough
vocation. And then he says, “Be imitators of me.” Just
as he was willing to imitate his Savior Who also was
willing to take up suffering for our sake, Paul urges us
to do the same. Today we heard St. Paul talk about a
thorn in the flesh that afflicted him, and he begged the
Lord to take it away. But when Christ said that it would
be for his benefit, he accepted it in order to rely on
the strength of Christ, rather than the ease of comfort.
Last Sunday I spoke of the Romanians in communist prison
and how, in the midst of terrible conditions they found
mercy, love and grace in caring for a dying man who
accepted his suffering for the love of Christ, and whose
love for Christ, even in that terrible place, elevated
the lives of his cell mates. They were extraordinarily
uncomfortable in a hundred different ways, and yet they
still found another, superior and undeniable comfort in
the Lord.
So I have been thinking these past few days about the
ways in which I seek comfort instead of virtue and
service, and it is not always – dare I say it? – it is
not a comforting examination.
But let’s believe the words of the Lord to Paul, that
His grace is sufficient for us, even in our weakness,
trouble and sorrow. Then we can exchange, more and more,
our desire to feel good for the desire to truly be
good….in Christ our Lord, Amen.