On the night of Christ’s birth, the angels in great
choir sang to the shepherds, “Glory to God in the
highest and peace on earth to those on whom His favor
rests.” Just before we begin the Liturgy the priests bow
and make the sign of the cross two times while they say
these words, and of course the first petition in the
Liturgy is, “In peace let us pray to the Lord.” But the
words of the angels are interesting to me. “Glory to God
in the highest…” is surely a great phrase to use for the
Lord. But then they talk about the peace of the people
on whom God’s favor rests. They don’t exhort people to
pray, or repent, or even to rejoice. They simply mention
peace. Because Christ has come there is the opportunity
for peace. He is indeed the Prince of Peace.
We hear about peace at His birth, and we also hear about
peace at the other end of Jesus’ life on the night
before He died. John 14:27— “Peace I leave with you, my
peace I give to you. Not as the world gives peace do I
give it to you. Do not let your hearts be troubled.”
What is the peace the world gives? I would like to
describe it as the peace that is “out there,” the
conditions out there, outside of me. When there is no
war or fighting, no aggravation or hostility or threats
of violence or injury. When the world and people and
conditions outside of me are all going well and not
causing me any trouble—that’s the peace of the world.
But how often do we share in that peace? How long does
it last?
I suspect you probably have had the same experience that
I am going to describe. Something happens to you that is
nasty or unpleasant or disappointing or frustrating or
upsetting or insulting or even dangerous. And today I am
thinking of one particular thing that happened to me
many years ago, just as an example. It made me very
angry, and I almost couldn’t believe that he said it.
After the words were spoken and after he was gone, I
started thinking about it and rolling it around in my
head, letting my anger baste the memory of this incident
like a Thanksgiving turkey. I had to get something done
and these thoughts went away to make room for that job,
but not for long. They came back again. And again. And
again, throughout the day. After a while there is
nothing new to be thought about. Every angle of that
situation has already been visited, reviewed, and
thought about, again and again many times over. These
thoughts become as stale as two-day-old French bread.
The situation has turned into a film loop, where the
same ideas, the same responses, the same emotion keeps
rolling around in my head and throughout the day they
continue to return to take hold of my attention and my
feelings.
And then I begin wondering why I want to allow this
thing to keep popping back into my thoughts and stirring
me up over and over again. God’s grace came to my rescue
with some helpful thoughts. What is the point of this?
And as long as I continued to let these thoughts back
into my head, I was unable to focus on something good,
or positive, or useful. As long as I let them keep
coming back into my head, I was missing opportunities
for gratitude and helpful thoughts, peaceful thoughts. I
finally decided to give myself a talking to.
“Stop it and just shut up. Do you need to have your
Christmas preparation disturbed by the words of this one
person?”
That was the end of it. Now a bit later in the day these
same thoughts tried to poke their way back into my head
several times, but I invoked the name of the Lord and I
shut the door on them. And this indeed can happen by the
grace of God.
We shouldn’t let our thoughts push us around. As much as
possible we should live and serve in the peace of our
Lord. What good, of what use were my thoughts about this
man’s words to me? Why should I give away my peace
because of them? Ridiculous. But at least I recovered
that time. And, more and more over the years, I have
learned to call on the Lord when I am stuck with angry,
sad, anxious, or distressing thoughts. “Lord, give me
peace and help me drive these thoughts away so that
something better can take their place.”
There are hard, difficult, and stressful times in our
lives where for a period, we may not be able to find
peace at that moment. Even Jesus was in agony at the
Garden of Gethsemane. But far too often we give up the
peace of Christ ourselves. We allow other people and
situations to take it from us by what has happened, or
by what people say, or what they do, or what they won’t
do. It’s as if we think we can only have peace when
everything out there is working the way I want it to
work, and everyone out there is acting the way I want
them to act. Then I can be at peace. But that’s not the
peace of Christ. That’s not how it worked for the Lord,
and that’s not how it works for us.
The peace of Christ allows me to be free from obsessing,
and worrying and being afraid, and remaining angry,
because of this thing or that, this person or that
person, this situation or that situation. The peace of
Christ does not mean we rest secure in a perfect world,
but rather that we rest secure in the protection of the
Son of God, and believing that whatever comes our way He
will not abandon us. The Word took on flesh because God
wanted to be with us. And when we come up at the end of
Liturgy, what truth do we profess? “Christ is among us!
He is and always will be!” Christ did not come to us, He
does not remain with us in order to ignore us and leave
us as we are, without His gift of peace.
I saw an article headline on the Internet, “How to avoid
the stress of the Holidays.” Ha! I’m sure it didn’t talk
about embracing the peace of Christ, but my friends, let
us actively seek out His peace this week and grab ahold
of it whenever we are tempted to anger, frustration,
disappointment, sadness or worry. Let us take hold of
our thoughts and call on Christ for His gift of peace in
our minds and in our hearts—so that just like the
shepherds at the end of this week we too can find Him,
love Him, and thank Him and pay Him homage.