I remember watching, several years ago one episode of
the TV show “Undercover Boss.” If you are not familiar
with it, it is a reality TV program where the heads of
companies disguise themselves and work alongside the
employees of their company to find out how things are
going with their business right there on the front
lines. In this particular program the boss, a man, was
the founder and CEO of a string of bars that has been
successful in the South. When you see the waitresses at
work, you immediately understand the angle of this
business. The servers are all young women wearing
uniforms that are just an inch away from what strippers
would wear. It is also obvious that you won't get hired
at these bars as a waitress unless you have a certain
sized chest.
We see, before their shift starts, all the women
attending the daily meeting. According to company
practice, each day the manager, a man, evaluates each of
the women on their hair, make-up, general appearance,
friendliness with customers and other aspects of work.
Those who rank the highest each day get the best
sections in the bar. One waitress is paired up with the
owner of the company who is in disguise. His job is to
help the waitress. She complains to him: "It's not fair
the way we get evaluated. The girls who flirt with the
manager always get the best tables. And this ranking
list is always creating trouble between the girls. It
causes a lot of bad feelings between us." Imagine a bar
manager every day telling his staff how they rate in sex
appeal, every day, in front of all the group. And how
does the Undercover Boss respond to her remarks? "The
manager must not be doing it correctly because I was the
person who invented the ranking system."
As he is talking further with this waitress she tells
him there is a lot of harassment on the job. Men can
become abusive, they make propositions, and sometimes
they wait in the parking lot and follow them home after
work. She said that she gets abusive treatment from at
least one guy every shift. Undercover Boss is shocked.
"I can't believe this. I can't believe there is so much
trouble with customers like this." And I'm thinking, are
you kidding me? You dress them up like strippers and you
expect them to be treated with respect? The boss is also
shocked that this waitress is constantly using
profanities with customers. You dress them up as sex
objects, but you want them to talk like debutantes?
I think this is one of the growing problems of our age:
people speak and act in certain ways and then they are
surprised when the natural results take place. Dress
your employees up as strippers and prostitutes, put them
in competition with each other, create an atmosphere of
sexual teasing, do one thing after another to treat your
servers as though they are sex objects, and then be
shocked by the natural outcome? I think it’s evidence of
a problem that is growing stronger with every year as
people refuse to acknowledge the natural consequences of
their actions and behaviors.
I thought of this TV episode because of an article in
the Register-Guard this past Tuesday. It’s been 2 years
since Oregonians voted to decriminalize drug usage. The
“Oregon Health Justice Recovery Alliance” is the primary
group promoting the idea that addicts should not be
treated as criminals. We are told that we should be
offering treatment instead of jail sentences. It sounds
like a great idea. I am absolutely for helping addicts
get free from drug use. But what has been the actual
result since decriminalization? Oregon is one of the
most drug-addicted states in America, and after the
first year under the new law there was a 33% increase in
deaths by overdose, twice the national average. The idea
is that if people are offered treatment, they will take
it. But of the 16,000 addicts who accessed public
services in the first year of decriminalization, less
than 1% entered a treatment program. But 60% of those
who contacted public services received free syringes.
There is no mention of drug-related crimes, such as
burglaries, theft, and acts of violence. Even more
disturbing to me—there is very little interest in trying
to discover why drug addiction is continually increasing
in our state, and what can be done to try and prevent
it. Why is that?
Today it has become much more common for people to act
in ways that can reasonably be seen as having a bad
outcome, and yet we find more people who are surprised
by it, upset, or even angry when the bad result happens,
because it’s not what they wanted.
The Byzantine Christians named their greatest church
Hagia Sophia, the Church of Holy Wisdom, and that holy
wisdom is Jesus Christ. He came to give us a wisdom we
could not find on our own. So, we see in today's Gospel
that there is a certain natural wisdom that Jesus
recognizes. People will love those who love them. They
will do good to those who are good to them. They will
lend money to people who will pay them back. Those are
statements of natural wisdom. But the Lord urges us to
go beyond this natural wisdom and strive for a higher
goal. Unlike the Undercover Boss whose policies lead to
many bad results that could reasonably have been
predicted, the wisdom of Christ leads to very good
results that do not appear so obviously. It does not
seem so wise to love your enemies. And yet we see that
Christ died for us sinners when we were not worthy in
any sense or form to merit His sacrifice. He sacrificed
Himself in love for those who love Him little, as well
as for those who even hate Him. This is His wisdom. We
don’t always choose it, because it seems to us that our
natural wisdom should work better, even though we have
plenty of examples to remind us that is not true. Often,
we want worldly wisdom to guide us in this life, and we
disregard the true wisdom of Christ, because it means we
have to trust that what He says is actually true, and it
is often difficult to live according to that truth.
He has done all good for us by offering us His own
divine life even though there is nothing we can give Him
that even in the smallest way can approach the goodness
He has given us. The Lord is so gracious, so generous,
so compassionate that everything He gives to us comes
without any request for payback. He is not one Who
loans, but only One Who gives. The wisdom of Christ in
today's Gospel is not the wisdom of the world, which, so
very often does not produce the good results we think we
should get, as Undercover Boss clearly showed. It's a
supernatural wisdom that elevates us up into the
likeness of Christ. It's a wisdom that does not follow
worldly standards of equality, equity, material fairness
or even justice, because to love your enemies and to do
good to others without expecting anything in return is
not what comes to us naturally. We are called instead to
share in and give forth the love of Christ which lifts
us above our fallen natures, and to live, so to speak, a
supernatural life even here in this natural world,
because we won't be here very long. It’s hard to do, but
it’s our calling.
May He Who is the Holy Wisdom give us the grace to think
less about the wrongs that may have been done to us, and
more about His great mercy and compassion for us sinners
who have failed so may times. Confessing our failures
should not lead us to despair, but rather lead us into
the loving arms of our Savior, Who is ever-ready to help
us live better, according to our great vocation as
Christians.